I know once you get a taste of the spotlight it’s hard to not get addicted to the fame.
I have seen some crazy things that people will do to get back to the career they once had but……..this?
To show off your ashy booty cheeks in a THONG is just nasty! What grown man wants a thong up his a**? Well Sisqo you will definitely get attention from this video but I don’t know if it’s the attention you want. SMH
I can’t believe the first decade of the millennium is complete. There were some thickettes & thick men that represented us well during this last decade while some of them made us say……….
WHAT THE HELL?
So check out my top thicksational moments (good and bad) from 2000-2009
Dating Shows
Oh yes! We had thickettes on the Flavor of Stank A** Love. Now if you do not remember the thickettes on this show let me remind you.
Goldie
The country comedian who made the house smell like chicken & beer the first day. I often questioned why would a thickette who seemed to have common sense and talent want to be on the show? Well we all know she didn’t want Flav so I think her presence on the show was an opportunity to showcase her comedy skills and………..IT WORKED! Goldie is now a professional comedian and compared to the other thickettes I am about to mention, she represented us well on Flavor of Love.
LikeDat
When I first saw LikeDat I thought she was a cool. She’s a woman who has a rough side to her.
HOWEVER!
When you are on any dating show (classy or ignorant) you have to go the extra mile being the only plus size girl in the house. So what does LikeDat do to impress Flav? She walks in his room with Barbecue stains on her shirt and her lingerie in her HAND and tells him she can be sexy too.
Hmmmmmmm
Yeah I think you know that is a……WHAT THE HELL moment.
Now drum roll please! The most memorable thickette on Flavor of Love is………
Somethin
The nasty trifling thickette. I know you remember her taking an accidental dump on the floor. By the way after you past 3 years old can you really say you accidentally…………………took a dump?
**Jeopardy Music**
Didn’t think so.
Anyhoo, I think that takes the cake to ANY blooper moment in the history of reality TV and sadly she had to be one of us (the thick crew).
MORE TO LOVE
The first dating show catering to thickettes and thick men. While we all love the concept of the show, something was missing. There was NO diversity and the producers had every thickette crying as if their sizes have caused them to NEVER experience dating OR have a boyfriend. During the first 3 episodes, I started to get “More to Love” confused with “Dr. Phil”. When the producers picked the cast for the show, I think they said let’s pick all pretty plus size women with low self-esteem and the show will give them the confidence to move forward in life.
YES PRODUCERS YOU GOT IT!
We are all big, miserable thickettes who cry and eat chicken all day because we can’t find love.
WHATEVER!
I still supported the show by keeping my TV on the channel so they could get their ratings, but I was completely turned off after the first 3 episodes. I think the producers need to TRY AGAIN!
I will have more thicksational moments for you tomorrow!
Oh yes! Â Some of you have read my views on DL men and are asking me what are the signs of a man on the “Down Low”.
I have seen some very interesting men that are questionable but the reality is ladies the only person who can truly spot a DL Man is a GAY MAN.
Yes honey you need a gay friend in your life! Not only are they loyal but they will tell you the truth!
So one of my good friends came up with a list of signs that a man COULD be on the DL.
Thickettes, there are CAPS on “could” for a reason. This is not a guarantee so do not go around town telling people that I said this was accurate. This is just from observation, nothing is 100%.
1. If your man (all of a sudden) becomes secretive about everything (example, having a cell phone that you didn’t know about.)
Now this could be him dealing with a man or woman so if you want to know if it’s a man, this sign isn’t enough. This would be an addition with other signs.
2. If your man likes to joke around and dance/sing to Janet, Beyonce, Rihanna, Madonna in a feminine way.
Trust me there is nothing cute about a man popping his a** and doing a booty dance. If he is dancing to any of these women and shaking/twirling better than you……….um yeah it’s not a joke.
3. If his best friend is ALWAYS around, even when they make plans they make them together but exclude their women.
Every man knows when their male friend is in a relationship it’s a package deal. When you invite him you invite the woman. Even if she has said no before, still give the invite to the couple not just him. If he is making plans to go to the movies, holiday dinner or something that seems like an intimate setting without you……..they are more than friends.
4. If he creates arguments with you just to have an excuse to leave the house for hours (if he’s not dl, he’s definitely cheating)
Yes, this is a BIG sign something is not right. A pointless argument that leaves you confused and he leaves the house for hours…just a cowardly way to exit the building…..and get his groove on.
5. If he brags about the woman he is with but she is never around.
Now if a man brags about his “woman”, wouldn’t he want to have her by his side all the time and show her off? Unless she is overseas there is no reason why you haven’t seen this “perfect” woman he talks about.
6. If he’s extremely open and friendly to gay men (he’s curious)
It’s one thing to have respect for each other but if he is touching, hugging and really close to this gay friend…something isn’t right (unless this gay man is a relative).
7. If he’s extremely homophobic (he’s trying to take the attention off of him)
A man who is extremely homophobic is not only a turn off because its disrespectful, but it also raises an eyebrow. Why would a man speak so much hate over a gay man who he most likely he doesn’t know? The gay man isn’t bothering him and if the gay man’s presence is bothering him girl he has some issues and mostly likely they are DL issues.
8. If he has a secret online life (I would question it and find out what’s going on with him and that computer)
If your man is always on the computer/internet there is something going on. His focus should be you, the kids…hell anything besides that computer when he is at home.
9. If he has a new male roommate every so often (6 months – year) that’s his new man!
Expensive cities (New York, LA, etc) a roommate is understandable but if he constantly has a new one, he’s crazy OR that “roommate” is a new lover (I would say the 2nd choice is more acceptable). Men are not like women (well most of them), they’re not catty and can get along with people. So if he is telling you he has a new roommate every couple of months….that’s his new dude.
10. If out of the blue he wants to try new things in the bedroom that just doesn’t seem right (no matter how freaky he is)
Ladies go with your intuition..you know when something doesn’t seem right and yes that includes the bedroom.
This year is going by so fast and I have so many things to be thankful for.
I am thankful for…………………..
Knowing GOD for myself. Since I know Him for myself I will never allow others to speak for me & define who I am.
God showing me that my purpose was off track and to get back on His purpose and plans for me.
My family, your support and love is a blessing
My drive, passion and determination to reach my dreams/goals
Knowing my strengths, imperfections and growing from them.
My friends, I can honestly say my friends give the same dedication to me as I do to them. I love them so much
Knowing my value and worth I don’t expect perfection but I expect the quality I give to you is the same you give in return.
The past and present men in my life. The men in my family who show me how a woman should be treated and the other men in my life who taught me how to treat a man.
Not settling! Life is too short to settle for a career, man or friend that doesn’t make you happy.
Having no regrets. Regrets can kill your spirit but lessons learned will renew it.
Having a meek spirit to constantly ask myself what I could have done in situations to make the other person feel better.
Knowing how to apologize (trust that’s a hard one for some people)
People who have lied, betrayed or manipulated me…..there can be no testimony without a test…so yes thank you and I will thank you when I get to the top. You didn’t bring value but you definitely gave me motivation!
And last but not least I am sooooooooooooooooooo thankful for YOU….my blog readers. Your visits to my blog and emails will never be taken for granted. I always appreciate your words of encouragement, honesty and I am so honored that you take time out of your day to visit thicksational.com
What are you thankful for?
Have a blessed Thanksgiving and to my other thickettes in other countries Happy Holidays. Love you all!
A special shout out to my thicksational libras! My birthday is tomorrow and I am going to party like it’s 1999! Have a great weekend and see you on Monday!
HEY THICKETTES! I JUST MOVED AND I AM ALSO SICK BUT I WILL BE UP AND RUNNING AGAIN NEXT WEEK. I AM ALSO IN ATLANTA RIGHT NOWÂ FOR THE PROJECT CURVE APPEAL CONVENTION.
HERE’S A CONTEST QUESTION FOR THE THICKETTES WHO LIVE IN THE ATLANTA AREA OR CAN COME TO ATLANTA TOMORROW.
QUESTION: WHAT CITY DID I MOVE TO? (FOR THOSE WHO KNOW ME DO NOT ANSWER THIS QUESTION! LOL)
1. CHICAGO
2. NEW YORK
3. ATLANTA
4. HOUSTON
5. MIAMI
THE FIRST PERSON WHO ANSWERS THE QUESTION CORRECTLY WILL RECEIVE 4 FREE TICKETS TO THE CURVE APPEAL CONVENTION GOING DOWN TOMORROW FROM 1 – 9PM.
Jermaine Dupri and his friends B.Cox and Johnta have a convo about sex and how men think. First they talk about THICK vs Skinny and it’s very interesting but I think it’s bullsh*t. This video is not safe for work!
Now let’s not forget Jermaine has a thick girl (Janet) and Johnta has a thing for one of our thickettes (Jaz Sullivan) so clearly thick girl do something right! I love watching their videos though I am as Jermaine would say a lifer baby!
