For a very long time I really hated this word. I felt “hater” was an overused word that people used even when you simply stated your opinion and for the most part this is still true, HOWEVER I’ve come to realize that there are truly haters in the world and I have come up with my own definition.

THE HATER – A hater is someone who takes their disgust on things that you do or are involved in to a whole new level. Now let me give you an example of what is not a hater to me.

Blogging, tweeting or facebooking about your opinion.
* These 3 things have become people’s personal diaries. Everyone should have the right to post whatever the hell they want to on their blogs, twitter and facebook because it belongs to them. If you put something on their about me, my style, my creativity etc. that’s your opinion. I can’t do anything about that and really don’t want to, because I would not want someone to come on my personal pages and tell me what I should do. Now if my love ones or fans say something hey that’s on you. You put it out there be ready to take it.

NOW……

When it becomes a point where every time I go to a site and I have something up you are putting your negative comments every where….that’s when I become puzzled and straight scared for my safety because there is clearly some emotions involved. It takes a lot for someone to go on different sites and talk about how much they don’t like something right? So why would they do it…….oh its simple they are THE HATER.

You also know someone is a hater when they get super emotional when someone confronts them on their hate. They start cursing, calling you names, and play the victim like typical haters/emotional vampires do. If you can’t express yourself in an intelligent way about this “opinion” you only claim to have (not personal) maybe to the core of you there is also a lot of inner hate, that brings the HATE out towards others.

Sometimes I like to talk to my haters, not because I want them to stop hating, hell I need them to hate because that makes me better. But I really want to see their logic in going to different sites or different people to say the same ish they’ve been saying for hours, days, weeks, months, YEARS!

Ok I get it, you may not like me, you may not like my writing, creativity, nose, belly, moles, nostrils but WHY DO YOU WANT THE WORLD TO KNOW? Why take time out of your days to keep talking about how you don’t like something.

Well I guess T.I. said it best……IT’S THEIR JOB!

No matter how much you try to talk to people in a civilized way, they will always get defensive because they don’t even know why they are doing the things that they are doing. That is the only way they know how to be. It has to be a horrible way to live but hey someone has to do the job right? Just pray for them and keep it moving….so to THE HATERS out there….this is for you.

Muah I love ya haters! Have a thicksational day!

He said his comment was taken out of context and I was going to let it go. HOWEVER the comment he made to attempt to fix the ignorance he said in his first interview, didn’t make things better.

Karl Lagerfeld, creative director of Fendi and Chanel said Adele (who is the BIGGEST selling artist of 2011) was ‘Fat’.

Check this out:

“I prefer Adele and Florence Welch. But as a modern singer she is not bad.The thing at the moment is Adele. She is a little too fat, but she has a beautiful face and a divine voice. Lana del Rey is not bad at all. She looks very much like a modern-time singer. In her photos she is beautiful. Is she a construct with all her implants? She’s not alone with implants.”(Source: Metro)

Again I ask what does Adele’s weight have to do with her talent? This is why we lack great talent in the industry today because ‘The Look” is more important than the TALENT. I still do not understand why Karl felt it was necessary to make that comment but to add more BS, he tried to come out with an additional statement saying his comment was taken out of context.

“I’d like to say to Adele that I am your biggest admirer. Sometimes when you take a sentence out of the article it changes the meaning of the thought. What I said was in relation to Lana Del Rey and the sentence has since been taken out of context from how it was originally published. I actually prefer Adele, she is my favorite singer and I am a great admirer of her. I lost over 30 kilos over 10 years ago and have kept it off. I know how it feels when the press is mean to you in regards to your appearance.  Adele is a beautiful girl. She is the best. And I can’t wait for her next CD.”(Source: Metro)

Was this suppose to make Adele or other thick women feel better?

The man still mentioned weight in his “apology”. Why is weight still being mentioned? Clearly Adele is comfortable with her size or she would have lost weight  like so many others who were apart of the thicksational club. His opinion doesn’t matter and to come back and attempt to fix the RUDE comment he made in his first interview, only to turn around and still mention weight, shows he really wasn’t SORRY for what he said but more SORRY that people didn’t like his comment. Well Karl you can keep your SORRY “apology”. Like Adele said she makes music for the ears, not the eyes, AND clearly most agree we her that’s why she is was more successful than ANY OTHER ARTIST IN 2011!

Regardless on what we accomplish there will ALWAYS be at least one who talks ISH!

Check out what ugly a** mop head Howard Stern had to say about our girl Gabby and Oprah.

So never mind her talent just focus on her size (IGNORANCE). Trust me Howard with Oprah on her side she WILL have a career regardless on what your anorexic a** thinks!

I had a very interesting debate with a “semi-celeb” and her comments made me realize that

A. This is what Skinny America thinks of us

&

B. Groupies & A** Kissers will do anything to be on a “celeb’s” good side.

One of my loyal readers emailed me the celeb’s twitter page and she was very upset.  She didn’t know what to think of the celeb’s comments on her twitter page and why she posted these pictures that were very offensive to our community. So I decided to post the pictures and comments here……

Pic #1

She said – “You got to start somewhere—hey one step at a time folks. I can’t hate if you trying!”

Now here are some of the comments that followed

Good for her but I am forced to ask, was this posted as encouragement or to poke fun at someone. A Plus Size woman in Leopard…. You had to know what people would say.

Damn that’s sexy!

Yeah… but that animal print? I wanna throw a NET over her, turn her in to animal control

Pic # 2

She tells her friends - ”Let’s get back on our workouts so this won’t happen to us!”

Pic # 3

She said - ”I love chicken too-BUT all in moderation”

Here are some of the comments:

You keep doing you! Posting this doesn’t promote ignorance or start it, but it certainly can motivate someone to change for the better. If, people can’t see that, then THEY have the problem.

she put the picture out there.she is making fun of herself.maybe she is happy with her body type.

yep cuz u gettin upset for nothin aint nobody complaining about the skinny pic she got up so stop being insecure about it

did you not read what i said? i said that theres nothing wrong with being big/thick (as long as you healthy) but if you dont find this pic ridiculous just like the other pic of the xtra skinny dude then something is wrong with you sto

Why can’t you say anything? Because it’s people like the this guy with his ridiculous comments that’s the reason. You’re encouraging people to talk sh*t. That’s not motivating them!

its typical it aint politically correct so the fat b*tches start acting up nothing wrong with being big but if u cant see how ridiculous this b*tch looks than obviously something is wrong with you

lighten up! This picture is just ridiculous on so many levels! Why is that triking a nerve. She had NO problem taking the picture. She’s clowning herself The hair is the funniest thing out the picture. It’s not like Im making fun of big gir and why CAN’T I say something about it? I been on some “Encouraging people to live healthy tip” Lately & there is nothing wrong with commenting on this. It aint healthy! We got to TRY to stay healthy-RIGHT?

Um wow again was their a purpose behind this?

This could’ve been a fan of your shows. Heck she may be following you. In the future, blocking her face may be an option if she’s going to be put on blast.

She also made this comment once she received backlash for her approach….

They say 5 out of 6 BLACK women R overweight-what’s wrong w/wanting 2 get that number down? We can do it! If I offended u-go RUN-let’s GO!

Now I put all of this to say that I do not promote obesity. I am all for our thickettes staying healthy. However I will not tolerate someone who exploits our community.

People assume a lot about the plus size world and yes sometimes the pictures posted on the internet do not represent us well.

BUT…..

Clearly a woman in leopard print, one eating fried chicken while she walks and one who can’t button her pants was not placed on twitter to motivate people. As a matter of fact she didn’t begin to motivate until after she received backlash from myself and another thickette.

She continued to talk about “motivating” people to get healthy for damn near an hour after my response. Now if she didn’t intend for the pictures and comments to offend anyone, why continue the topic hours later and also a week later? Sounds like someone felt guilty.

What do you think thickettes? How would you respond if you saw these pictures and comments?

FYI: The “celeb” who posted the picture was dumped by an athlete who is now married to a thickette. Can we say KARMA?

Desiree Devine and other BBW Porn Stars are suing an adult entertainment company for not allowing them to have a booth at an adult entertainment convention because of their size.

Adultcon, the famous adult entertainment show held twice a year at the Los Angeles Convention Center, has been sued by a quartet of BBW adult performers. They allege they signed on as exhibitors and were bounced from the show after the operator viewed their photos.

The suit filed at the Los Angeles Superior Court involves four BBW porn actresses who claim they were unable to market their personas at the show.

The suit alleges that Adultcon intentionally discriminated against the four women because of their “weight, obesity and physical appearance.” An Adultcon spokesperson stated that the women were offered booths after they were threatened with a lawsuit, but the offer was declined.

Why would they take the booth after they rejected them?

Now check out this video. Watching the video pissed me off because I am tired of people thinking thicksational women are a joke. If they were taking about skinny porn stars I’m pretty sure they would have taken the lawsuit seriously. 

VIDEO

 Your thoughts? 

 Before I start to go off check this out.

 

…the iconic singer is currently battling some weight gain again, recently stepping out in uncharacteristically frumpy clothes for a high-calorie meal.

Over the weekend, she raised eyebrows when she stopped by one of her favorite haunts- Burritos El Chavo in Tarzana, CA- bundled up in ill-fitting sweatpants and an over-sized sweatshirt.

“She comes here all the time,” says an employee. “She ordered two chicken soft tacos with some rice and beans. She gets chicken tacos all the time. She comes once a week, sometimes twice a week.”

An estimated count of the calories in her ten dollar meal: 400 (two tacos with the normal fixings) plus 300 (for the rice and beans) equals a whopping 700 calories for an afternoon bite! That’s nearly half of a normal woman’s estimated daily intake. (Source)

Okay looking at the picture the clothes make her look bigger than what she is. Also who in the hell takes the time out to count the calories someone else is eating?

If Janet or any thickette wants to eat there every week that’s their damn business. I think she is now comfortable with her size and doesn’t care about the media. If you have seen Janet recently you would know that Janet looks damn good to be 42! I am pretty sure she exercises every week and eats healthy.

To hell with the haters!

Janet bring me back a steak burrito with sour cream and guacamole!

Oh and how ya doing Johnny Gill (yes that’s him behind her). I see nobody mentioned him eating the same calories!

So for those who don’t know, Lil Kim is pissed about how she was portrayed in the Notorious movie. Well first let me say this, if you haven’t seen the movie please go check it out. Even though there was certain parts that were kind of boring due to the fact that if you were already a Biggie fan (like me), you already know about certain events that happened in his life so it was nothing new seeing it on screen. However this movie really took me back to the 90′s and how good music really was back then. Now I felt that the casting was great! All of the actors/actress did an excellent job with the script that they were given but there was one exception………….

The person that I felt didn’t do a great job with his character is the person who is talking ish about Lil Kim in the video below. Anthony Mackie played Tupac in the video and personally I thought he was just average. To me he was trying to damn hard and his role as Tupac was not believable.

Now check what he had to say about Lil Kim

(Shout out the VIV from Hip Hop Gossip Site (Where I saw this video))

Wow really Anthony? She’s not a human being? Do you even know Lil Kim? I personally don’t think Lil Kim is stirring stuff up just to get attention after seeing this movie I can see why she could feel that way.

SPOILER ALERT

Now if you NEVER seen any documentaries about Bigge or Kim you would think all BIG did was buy Kim a sandwich just to get into her legs told her what she wanted to hear and when he got married treated her like ish the whole entire time and Kim just continued to try to win Big’s heart. I don’t think this was the case. I just can’t see any female in her right mind (no matter how insecure she is) would continue to stay and sex a dude that doesn’t show her any love and constantly treats her like she’s nothing. Even though Kim was young I think she was getting mixed feelings from Big and she knew she deserved better but she was already in love.

This is just a common thing that ALL women have gone through so for Anthony to talk ish and disrespect her just shows that HIS PUNK A** is the one who wants the attention. Lil Kim has the fame that you haven’t reached Anthony and if she didn’t talk about you then keep her name out of your mouth.

Ugh I can’t stand men who disrespect women. Hasn’t Obama taught mofos anything yet? Speak on it thickettes. What are your thoughts?

Beyonce starts to cry during her interview when she talks about how happy she is to be apart of this historical moment. Now this is also the same woman who performed at Bush Inauguration back in her DC days so is this her really being sincere or is she an opportunist? I will say this…. Beyonce did a great job with her performance and I am very shock to see her show emotion. I haven’t seen this much emotion from her singing or acting EVER.

BUT

I still don’t like her!

Now to the Stans who come to this site….

Why would you (Beyonce Stans) think that I would stop voicing my opinon about her or anybody else on this blog? I Krys Nicole never hold my tongue regardless of what you stans have to say.

Most of you stans only come to this blog to defend her. If you reallly are fans of thicksational.com you would see that I give props to my thicksational ladies when they deserve it. However everything will not be thicksational all the time and I give my opinion GOOD or BAD. I’ve never been fake and will never start that phony Hollywood cycle just because some random people came to my site to only be negative and clutter my email with their “Beyonce is the greatest in the world” bullsh*t.

Not to mention Beyonce isn’t even considered a THICKETTE (in my opinion) therefore I have no obligation to defend or protect her.

To sum it up regardless of what the negative stans have to say I want to make this clear.

BEYONCE “FAKER THAN A 4 DOLLAR BILL” KNOWLES WILL NEVER GET MY RESPECT AS AN ARTIST AND DAMN SURE WILL NEVER GET MY RESPECT AS AN “ACTRESS”.

For those who call me a hater that’s fine call me what you want but I will still voice my opinion.

I REFUSE TO DRINK THE KOOL AID TO GET INTO YOUR BEYONCE CULT.

To my loyal thicksational readers who are Beyonce fans as well. I appreciate you supporting my site regardless of my post about Beyonce. I love your feedback and your emails. Most fans of Beyonce can respect my opinion.

BUT ONE MORE THING TO THE STANS

You might want to tell your girl to put on a bra. Why she felt the need to not have on support in that dress at a CLASSY event I guess I will never understand.

Other than that have a THICKSATIONAL day! Fans and Stans

Muah!

                                

               CLASS!                              VS.                        TRASH!    

OF COURSE NEW YORK SORRY A** HAD TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT JEN & PUNK!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“He’s really loving being Mr. Jennifer Hudson. I think he’s loving the lavish things she brings to his life, he’s seeing the world due to Jennifer’s success,” Tiffany tells In Touch. “[But] can you love this person if they lose all of this tomorrow? She needs to find out. I just hope people are marrying each other for the right reasons.” New York’s not optimistic about the couple’s future. “It’s a mixed match, it won’t work,” she says. “He’ll be in her shadow like Al Reynolds was to Star Jones, like Stedman Graham is to Oprah.” There’s also a good reason David wasn’t the right match for Tiffany on I Love New York 2. “When we were in Miami together, he didn’t even try anything [on me]!” she says. “Maybe I wasn’t his type, maybe I wasn’t big enough for him.” “His heart is way big,” Tiffany says of David, who proposed to Jennifer after dating less than a year. “Two weeks ago, I ran into [Jennifer and David] and I didn’t say much,” reveals Tiffany. “I said ‘Goodbye, Punk!’ and she looked at me like ‘What!’ I know his name’s David, but I call him Punk.” (Source)

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A STEDMAN AND LETTING YOUR WOMAN DO HER THING AND DON’T HATE ON THE THICKNESS NEW YORK! YOU HAD TO BUY YOUR DOUBLE D’S WHILE THICK WOMEN ARE BLESSED WITH THE BTC MEMBERSHIP! 

WELL ………………SHE DIDN’T SAY IT LIKE THAT LOL BUT YOU GET THE POINT. QUEEN LATIFAH SAYS SHE DOESN’T CARE IF PEOPLE CALL HER GAY.

“I don’t have a problem discussing the topic of somebody being gay, but I do have a problem discussing my personal life,” Latifah, 38, told Sunday’s New York Times magazine.

“You don’t get that part of me. Sorry,” she added. “We’re not discussing it in our meetings, we’re not discussing it at Cover Girl…nobody gets that.

“I don’t feel like I need to share my personal life, and I don’t care if people think I’m gay or not,” she said. “Assume whatever you want. You do it anyway.”

“People will make up all sorts of things that are not true,” she told the Chicago Sun-Times. “There ain’t gonna’ be no wedding.” (Source)

THAT’S RIGHT YOU TELL THEM QUEEN! EVEN THOUGH I PERSONALLY COULD CARE LESS IF SHE IS GAY OR NOT. SHE IS STILL TALENTED AND THICKSATIONAL!