So after seeing some thickettes comments about the “More to Love” dating show, I started to think about dating for the plus size world.

Some people are saying that “More to Love” is something that we need because plus size women will finally get respect and be taken seriously as a girlfriend/wife.

Now l agree with the comments about the show. Any show that has thickettes seen in a positive light I am all for however is dating really that hard for us?

So I want your opinion…

1. Is our weight or confidence a problem?

2. Are men not confident enough to be with a plus size woman?

3. Does it have a lot do with where you live?

4. Are we not taken seriously because of our size?

5. Do you feel you have to lower your standards because of your size?

Please keep it real. It’s time to open up about what we go through as thicksational women.

Jazmine Sullivan turns 22 today! Here’s a video of her when she was 15 singing “Sunshine”. Can you tell me anybody in the music industry right now who can touch Jaz’s vocals?